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Post realistic but flattering photos, and write something about yourself that is intriguing and tells your suitors what you are passionate about and what makes you tick.Then watch how quickly other quality people who also put in the same type of effort are drawn to you!As an aficionado of online dating, and founder of Marry Me Already.com, a dating site targeted strictly at people looking for serious relationships and marriage, I am often asked how online daters can distinguish between people looking for that special someone and those who are just in it for a night of fun. Online dating can really work, with as many as one in six marriages today between people who met online.The trick is in sifting out the diamonds from the ruffians!Unfortunately, many of us are being told we must date early and often if we ever want to be ready for marriage.

I also believe that this recommendation applies with equal force to single men and women in college.I discuss this principle more fully in "Principles for Drawing Boundaries" and "What Does a Biblical Relationship Look Like?" As a quick refresher, we can "defraud" our brother or sister in a dating context by showing or encouraging a level of intimacy — either emotionally or physically — that the Bible seems to reserve for marriage and marriage only.And because we misunderstand and misuse dating, we end up making more and greater mistakes in our search for love.I definitely do not expect everyone to agree with me.